<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473</id><updated>2012-02-16T06:50:52.366-08:00</updated><category term='long-distance marriage'/><category term='Imago'/><category term='Enneagram'/><category term='Healing Codes'/><category term='long-distance relationships'/><title type='text'>Becoming Soulmates</title><subtitle type='html'>I help lesbian singles and couples become soulmates by teaching them how to remove and heal the blocks that get in the way of creating the good, strong, happy relationships they want.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-5366856471570270238</id><published>2007-03-04T17:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-06-23T12:27:13.539-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='long-distance relationships'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='long-distance marriage'/><title type='text'>Long-distance family...</title><summary type='text'>I am currently in a long-distance marriage. Though we are working on changing that, we have hit a couple of snags.Are you in a long-distance relationship? Is it hard to believe that intimacy and bonding can actually increase across the miles?Here are a few tips we have relied on...(1) Lots of open, honest communication: by phone, using email, IMs and letters. We connect every day one way or </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/5366856471570270238/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=5366856471570270238&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/5366856471570270238'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/5366856471570270238'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2007/03/long-distance-family.html' title='Long-distance family...'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-724406445977968748</id><published>2007-02-10T07:31:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-02-07T08:47:51.758-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What "the Secret" Didn't Tell You...</title><summary type='text'>There's a lot of excited "buzz" about the Secret: even Oprah and Larry King have featured it on their shows. So you probably know what it is: the Law of Attraction. What you think about, focus on, increase your awareness of, expands and grows. You can use this principle to create what you want in your life!So if what you want is to find the love of your life or transform your relationship, you </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/724406445977968748/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=724406445977968748&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/724406445977968748'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/724406445977968748'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2007/02/what-secret-didnt-tell-you.html' title='What &quot;the Secret&quot; Didn&apos;t Tell You...'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-116762610753170821</id><published>2006-12-31T20:32:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-12-31T20:35:07.543-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A fond and grateful farewell to 2006...</title><summary type='text'>What are you grateful for that 2006 brought to you?My list...(1) I became able to let go of and heal an attraction that was hurting me. And that made me ready for real love, which was waiting in the wings!(2) I saw Brokeback Mountain, which completely changed my life!! It led to a community of people who feel like home to me, and a love affair with two characters who own space in my heart.(3) I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/116762610753170821/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=116762610753170821&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/116762610753170821'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/116762610753170821'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2006/12/fond-and-grateful-farewell-to-2006.html' title='A fond and grateful farewell to 2006...'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-116387092802128078</id><published>2006-11-18T09:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-11-18T09:28:48.040-08:00</updated><title type='text'>What are you grateful for?</title><summary type='text'>"Gratitude bestows reverence, allowing us to encounter everyday epiphanies, those transcendent moments of awe that change forever how we experience life (is it abundant or is it lacking?) and the world (is it friendly or is it hostile?). Once we accept that abundance and lack are parallel realities and that each day we choose--consciously or unconsciously--which world we will inhabit, a deep </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/116387092802128078/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=116387092802128078&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/116387092802128078'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/116387092802128078'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2006/11/what-are-you-grateful-for.html' title='What are you grateful for?'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-115984157321991420</id><published>2006-10-02T18:50:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-23T12:30:34.949-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Healing Codes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Enneagram'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Imago'/><title type='text'>What does energy healing have to do with the Enneagram?</title><summary type='text'>Have you ever taken the Enneagram test? http://www.enneagraminstitute.comI've taken it several times over the years and I know that I am an enneagram four. Recently, my fiancee took it online and it turns out she's a nine. We talked about the descriptions of our types and recognized each other ("that is what you do!"). And then, we took a look at relationship compatibility.This part was my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/115984157321991420/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=115984157321991420&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115984157321991420'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115984157321991420'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2006/10/what-does-energy-healing-have-to-do.html' title='What does energy healing have to do with the Enneagram?'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-115819750108808414</id><published>2006-09-13T18:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-10-07T01:53:24.440-07:00</updated><title type='text'>How to Avoid Repeating Negative Relationship Patterns</title><summary type='text'>A woman asked recently how to change her pattern of falling in love with unavailable women. Here's what I recommended...To me, healing that tendency to find women who are unavailable is about healing the heart and keeping the heart open, holistically. Holistic healing involves finding and healing what caused the problem, instead of just subduing or suppressing the symptom. There are several ways </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/115819750108808414/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=115819750108808414&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115819750108808414'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115819750108808414'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2006/09/how-to-avoid-repeating-negative.html' title='How to Avoid Repeating Negative Relationship Patterns'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-115759964162706486</id><published>2006-09-06T20:23:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-09-06T20:27:21.636-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Surviving in Long-Distance Relationships</title><summary type='text'>After a wonderful week that included a 3-day weekend beach resort trip, I had to watch the love of my life, my bride-to-be, walk away from me toward the gate that would lead to her plane. Sigh!So, ... I've been thinking about long-distance relationships today and thought I'd post some helpful tips for surviving the distance.Apparently, there are three stages couples go through when they are about</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/115759964162706486/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=115759964162706486&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115759964162706486'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115759964162706486'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2006/09/surviving-in-long-distance.html' title='Surviving in Long-Distance Relationships'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33388473.post-115664543349815323</id><published>2006-08-26T19:14:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-09-14T19:50:47.773-07:00</updated><title type='text'>My Story</title><summary type='text'>Wow! My first ever post on this blog!! Kind of exciting :).I think I want to begin this blog by expressing gratitude for everything wonderful in my life today. But specifically, I am thankful for my fiancee (my bride-to-be) and for the healing that made it possible to create the relationship I have with her today.Almost a year ago, I began to work on creating a vision for the love I wanted in my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/feeds/115664543349815323/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=33388473&amp;postID=115664543349815323&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115664543349815323'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/33388473/posts/default/115664543349815323'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://becomingsoulmates.blogspot.com/2006/08/my-story.html' title='My Story'/><author><name>Jeanine Byers Hoag</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='21' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ykJKmlh6h5w/Tq4SChXlcUI/AAAAAAAABqY/43OdDvKiiNk/s220/FallCapsuleWardrobe%2BAutumnWarm6.JPG'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>
